One of the most important parts of social success is social-awareness. There are many things that are important to pick up on: people’s mood, why they are there, their plans for the night, the people they are with, how they are reacting to you and the environment, etc…
If you want to improve your dating life and you are following and admiring girls not just on Instagram, but on Facebook or in porn too, it just encourages the distance you perceive between you and the women you meet in real life.
No one wants an inauthentic version of the person they are interacting with… Give them something real.
Too many men who are trying to improve their dating lives shun the idea of simply “making friends” with women.
Unbeknownst to them, this is exactly what they need to do to improve.