If I was to walk around town wearing a t-shirt with the phrase “Treat Women Like Dogs” printed on the front of it, I’d surely be challenged.
And I would ask whoever confronts me:
“How do you treat your dog exactly?”
To clarify: I’m not saying “Treat women like dogs in general”. Hopefully all of my readers are intelligent enough to see that there is no derogatory message here. This is an article about how men overthink when an attractive woman enters the room. It has absolutely nothing to do with treating women with any kind of disrespect. Of course there are many blogs out there for guys who are into that kind of thing. This isn’t one of them.
So let’s imagine you’re at your friend’s house playing Xbox.
He gets up to use the bathroom leaving you alone in the living room.
In walks his dog.
You see the dog, you don’t start panicking inside thinking “Oh my god there’s that dog I really like, I don’t if it likes me, I don’t know what I should do with it”.
You don’t get caught in your head trying to figure out the best way to approach the dog so that it has a good impression of you.
You’re pleased to see it, and you let it know, out loud that you’re pleased to see it. You’re not shy about it.
You immediately start playing with the dog, giving it some love and attention.
You know what it wants because you can read its body language. You can almost read its mind even though you never met before. You know if it’s had enough “fuss” or if it wants more.
You don’t need to think about what to do during each stage of the interaction. And you feel perfectly normal/fine when the encounter ends. You don’t sit there hoping for more. And you can trust in the fact that the dog will be pleased to see you next time.
You don’t spend the next 6 hours thinking up cool shit you could/should have done with & said to the dog.
NOW imagine your friend’s HOT SISTER walks in.
Do you just give her an awkward and quiet “hi”?
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